next retreat: May 1 - 4, 2025

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A 3-day in-person group intensive followed by an eight-week healing community to help you harness the words whispering in your soul and nurture your relationship with yourself to embody wholeness in your next season.

Step into wholeness

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explore your story

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the tools to harness your identity

You play many roles and care deeply for your husband and children.  Your life is full but sometimes you just feel lonely and exhausted.  You feel like something is missing but you don't know what it is.  You are restless and don't feel comfortable in your skin.

You want to understand yourself more, but don't know where to start.  You heard somewhere that the answer to "finding" yourself is self-care, therapy, reading and even more Bible study.  You do those things but still feel . . . empty. 

What you're looking for is wholeness, a way of being where you and others see the fullness of who you already are.  You want to embody this, especially in the next season of life.   You want a safe space to practice being yourself and crave a community to support and mirror back to you.

the safe space to practice integration

SIW is a Faith inspired experience to help you harness the words of your heart, and embody your whole self, boldly.

the heart, the gateway to your identity.

Welcome to Your Product or Course.

Ready for your life to change?

for everything you do flows from it.

— proverbs 4:23

“Above all else, guard your heart,

your heart is the gateway to wholeness

heart work | rest | community

evins mill resort, smithville, tn
May 1 - May 4, 2025

You are guided through deep Spirit-led heart work designed to help you  become aware of the limiting beliefs that keep you from embodying wholeness.  You will explore your story and begin to understand the roots of the beliefs you carry.  Your willingness to shine a light and confront those beliefs is where you awaken to your uniqueness and transform into the person you were created to be.

AWAKEN

This is where you start to explore your growth edges by activating the parts of you that you've been hiding.  You will learn the words of your heart and practice expressing what is true.  You'll engage in  exercises that explore the ways  you learned to dismiss your heart and hide your uniqueness.  Although it may be uncomfortable, you'll also experience being seen, heard, and fully known maybe for the first time ever.

ACTIVATE

Your retreat experience begins slowly and gently with an introduction to your spiritual anatomy and the Faith-based concepts that frame our time together.  If you've ever wondered why parts of you feel missing or why you just don't feel comfortable in your skin this will be an a-ha moment.  You will see your full self, maybe for the first time ever  and attune to the parts of you that need your presence.

ATTUNE

show me

get started

I'm ready

Thank you for helping me rewrite my life story.


- Candance, Shared with Permission

Thank you for showing up with a gentle yet strong heart.  You held space for my stuff for as long as I needed and you never made me feel little.  I was heard maybe for the first time ever. 


Geri - shared with permission

"This experience will be a major course change for my life."

cara stepping into her uniqueness -

Search me oh God and know my heart . . .

Psalm 139:23

Giving yourself the time and focus to honor your heart, soul, mind and body, without having to do the stuff you do with your time like, dishes, meal prep, caring for others and the distraction of digital media.

Exploring your growth edges by attuning to your feelings and needs so that you can  clearly know where you begin and end and others begin and end.

Learning and practicing in the context of  a group setting and willing to engage your story with kindness and compassion.

Willingness to take responsibility for your role in your life and relationships.

Arriving with the fear of SIW and entering with hands open to receive what God has for you.


and finally having the courage to step into your uniqueness and surrender to what's next.

sounds good

next retreat: MAY 1 - 4, 2025

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What's Included

the siW experience

.001 Three nights at Evins Mill Resort

Think all-inclusive resort and community with your own private room and bath because rest + restoration.

.002 All of your nourishing meals each day

Plus fully stocked drinks and snacks.  If your special almond milk isn't there, we'll get it for you.

.003 Guidance + Group Check-Ins

12 guided sessions designed to be reflective and experiential and to help you cross the threshold to yourself.


.004 Carefully curated resources 

A special goodie bag filled with favorite resources (and goodies!) on arrival to stay in the energy of self-care during and after the intensive.

.005 Restorative Rest

You'll have space and time to rest and reflect in the surrounding beauty of The Evin's Mill Resort.  Miles of trails are available for you to hike at your leisure.  Don't forget to visit the awesomeness of Carmac Falls.

All you've gotta do is say yes.

(the journey actually starts here)

heart centered

evins mill resort, smithville, tn
MAY 1 - 4, 2025

Limited spots available
(6 total)

Total Investment
$3,850

Payment options available

A P P L Y

God wrote you.

You were written to reveal.

Your story is meant to intersect with others.

- dan allender

It takes practice and time to step into wholeness and there's typically a lot of feelings after a retreat experience. 

You don't have to make this transition and figure out how to integrate what you've learned into your life alone.  

You'll continue to receive guided coaching and community support with eight weekly online check-ins following your retreat.  TBD

Valerie has just the right amount of words - enough to allow room for my process, let me know her, and show me the way forward from her own experience. She held my story so carefully and allowed for so much healing to happen.

Hillary - shared with permission

KIND WORDS —

Negroni is incredibly organized. We couldn't have elevated our brand without her."


Jen Olmstead,
Tonic Site Shop

next retreat: MAY 1 -4, 2025

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Meet your guide, Valerie Mowery

Gosh, I know what it's like.

7 years ago I said yes to a journey that I didn't even know I needed.   I love to learn and I thought this group experience offered something to learn then do. Easy-peasy life hack.  One and done.

As I started to learn and engage with others in the group, I became aware that I didn't know who I was anymore.  Everything about my identity was based on my husband and children.  I had lost my sense of self.  I was lonely, exhausted and resentful.  This resulted in  behavior patterns that kept me from fully loving myself and others and experiencing the life and relationships meant for me.

I had to learn to access the words of my heart so that I could find clarity about my identity and heal.

Transformation happens in layers.  Over the years I've peeled back layers to reclaim as much of my God given identity, this side of heaven.  It's not so easy-peasy and it is life-long work for sure, but boy, it is worth it!

There's been a lot to grieve and accept, but with it comes peace and a connection with God, others and myself that I did not even know was possible.

I'm passionate about guiding you through the same experience that changed the way I see myself and the world.